A few good
ground rules.

Come for the conversation.

The connection list is for adults interested in friendship, conversation, and shared experiences. Treat other people as people, rather than sales prospects or romantic opportunities. Unsolicited selling, harassment, discrimination, and sexual pressure have no place here.

Everyone chooses their pace.

Ask before sharing contact details, adding someone to a group, taking their photograph, or posting about a meeting. A no, a changed mind, or an unanswered invitation is enough. No one owes a personal story, a reason, or a second meeting.

Keep a first meeting public.

Choose a busy public setting, arrange your own transport, and let someone you trust know your plan. Keep your phone available and leave whenever you want. Avoid sharing your home address, financial information, identification documents, or other sensitive details.

Protect your information.

Registering interest does not publish your details. If a possible introduction involves sharing information, the next steps should be explained first. Don’t send money to someone you have just met, and be cautious about requests to move quickly into private or financial arrangements.

Speak up when something feels wrong.

Use the contact form to raise a concern, giving only the information needed to understand it. This form is not monitored as an emergency service. If there is immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

Keep expectations realistic.

We cannot guarantee another person’s identity, behaviour, availability, or compatibility. Use your own judgement and choose the next step that feels comfortable for you. Participation is always optional.